trešdiena, 2011. gada 23. februāris

I'm freezing!!!

Man patiešām patīk ziema ar visiem tās sniegputeņiem, braucieniem uz aizsalušo jūru, dienām uz kalna, auksto, bet patīkami saulaino laiku, siltajām ziemas drēbēm un visiem citiem priekiem. BET ar noteikumu, ka varu vienmēr atgriezties vakarā mājās un ātri sasildīties.
Šajā ziemā man tas prieks atkrīt, jo mājās videjā temperatūra ir +14 C ! Esmu nosalusi jau pirms iziešanas ārā. Un sasildīties tā pa īstam nesanāk nekad.
Lieki teikt, ka GAIDU PAVASARI!!!!



otrdiena, 2011. gada 22. februāris

A Circle of Friends


Pavadot laiku sarunās ar saviem draugiem, ik pa laikam pārspriežot panākumus, neveiksmes, privāto dzīvi, pieredzi un dažādas emocijas, jāsaskaras ar to, cik ļoti ik katru ietekmē citu cilvēku viedoklis un reakcija.
Jo tomēr, pavisam negribot, sarunu gaita bieži vien tiek papildināta ar traģiskā balsī pateiktām frāzēm: ''Un ko gan mani kolēģi domās, ja es to izdarīšu?'', ''Kāds kauns, ka sarunāju tādas muļķības, droši vien VISI domā, ka neesmu īsti normāls!'', ''Viņš noteikti to visiem ir izstāstījis!'', ''Tas konflikts veikalā ar pārdevēju man ir sabojājis šodien garstāvokli!'' vai ''Noteikti, ka man nevajadzētu šobrīd to darīt, jo viņa apvainosies'' utt (turklāt nav tā, ka šādas frāzes var dzirdēt tikai no sievietēm). Tas liek domāt par to, ka mēs papildinam savus ikdienas satraukumus, domājot par to kā mūs no malas redzēs citi, kā viņi mūs novērtēs un uztraucoties par to cik veiksmīga būs mūsu komunikācija ar visiem šiem apkārt esošajiem cilvēkiem... (pats muļķīgākais ir tas, ka šie cilvēki, kuri rada stresa sajūtu, visbiežāk ir attālāki paziņas, mazpazīstami darba kolēģi, pašiem nepatīkamas personas vai nejauši satikti svešinieki) Un te nu es arī sevi vairākas reizes esmu pieķērusi to darām... Tādēļ es izdomāju vienkāršu veidu kā no šādām liekām domām atbrīvoties.
Izdarāms tas ir pavisam vienkārši: paņemam baltu lapu, uzrakstam lapas vidū savu vārdu, apkārt tam sarakstam to cilvēku vārdus, kuri mums ir tuvi, svarīgi, kuru viedoklis mums ir patiešām nozīmīgs un noderīgs, rūpīgi apdomājot to, kādēļ tieši šie cilvēki mums tik daudz nozīmē. Tad, kad tas ir padarīts, apkārt savam un tuvienieku/draugu/visādi citādi svarīgo cilvēku vārdiem, apvelkam apli. Un apsolam sev no šī brīža, ka šis aplis ir mūsu mazā pasaule, kurā notiekošais mums ir primārais un kur jūtamies labi un droši. Līdz ar šo momentu, to cilvēku viedokļi un uzskati, kas atrodas ārpus mūsu apļa robežām, nav uztverami ar ierasto traģiskuma pieskaņu. Savā ziņā tas ļauj izvērtēt prioritātes un tajā pašā laikā norobežoties no apkārtējās pasaules, kuru mēs ļoti bieži pielaižam sev pārāk tuvu sirdij.
Saaudzēsim sevi, savus nervus, izvairīsimies no nevajadzīga satraukuma un tversim vairāk pozitīvisma! :) 


 

trešdiena, 2011. gada 2. februāris

pirmdiena, 2011. gada 31. janvāris

Please...

...take me to PARIS!!!

Impossible is nothing!

"Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It's an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It's a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing."

ceturtdiena, 2011. gada 13. janvāris

Sex and the City quotes

“I'm thinking balls are to men what purses are to women. It's just a little bag, but we feel naked in public without it.''

“If you are single there is always one thing you should take out with you on a Saturday night... your friends.”

''No matter who broke your heart, or how long it takes to heal, you'll never get through it without your friends.'' 

 
''Welcome to the age of un-innocence. No one has breakfast at Tiffany's and no one has affairs to remember.''

''I figured we made a good match. I was adept at fashion; he was adept at politics. And really, what's the difference? They're both about recycling shop-worn ideas and making them seem fresh and inspiring.''




''The universe may not always play fair, but at least it's got a hell of a sense of humor.''

''I'm someone who is looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient,consuming, can't-live-without-each-other love.''



“The only thing that I have ever successfully made in the kitchen is a mess. And several little fires.''
 
“From my experience, honey, if he seems too good to be true—he probably is.'' 

 
“Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous.”


 “Maybe mistakes are what make our fate... without them what would shape our lives? Maybe if we had never veered off course we wouldn't fall in love, have babies, or be who we are. After all, things change, so do cities, people come into your life and they go. But it's comforting to know that the ones you love are always in your heart... and if you're very lucky, a plane ride away”

“Maybe all men are a drug. Sometimes they bring you down and sometimes, like now, they get you so high."


“I will never be the woman with the perfect hair, who can wear white and not spill on it.”

“Carrie: I just love Sleeping Beauty! The music, the sets, the costumes. It's so romantic!
Stanford: You only like it because she sleeps for a hundred years and doesn't age.”


“I had often fantasized about running into my ex and his wife. But in those fantasies, I was running over them with a truck.”

“Miranda: Maybe it's time that I stop being so angry.
Carrie: Yeah, but what would you do with all your free time?”


 “When it comes to life and love, why do we believe our worst reviews?”

“Men cheat for the same reason that dogs lick their balls... because they can.”

 
“People go to casinos for the same reason they go on blind dates - hoping to hit the jackpot. But mostly, you just wind up broke or alone in a bar.”

“So many roads. So many detours. So many choices. So many mistakes.”  


“I like my money right where I can see it... hanging in my closet.”

“Are we simply romantically challenged, or are we sluts?” 

 
''Later that night, I got to thinking about men, and women and relationships. Or more to the point, how women feel men disappoint them in relationships. Then a radical, almost earth-shattering thought popped into my head. What if everything isn't the man's fault? After a certain age, and a certain number of relationships; if it still isn't working and the ex's seem to be moving on and we don't, perhaps the problem isn't the last boyfriend, or the one before him, or even the one before him! Could it be, that the problem isn't them, but horror of horrors - is it us?''



pirmdiena, 2011. gada 10. janvāris

creativity

''Maybe it's not always about trying to fix something broken, maybe it's about starting over and creating something better.''